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100% true, this advice applies to anything in life. Like the author said it’s not about being selfish, you SHOULD do A LOT of things for free, help people in need, volunteer, give away things you have and aren’t using to people who could, but can’t afford them. Always, ALWAYS look to give, with no thought of return or credit given…EXCEPT in your professional life. The key word here is PROFESSIONAL, that means its the area where YOU make money so you HAVE something to give away. I don’t care if you are the lowliest wanna-be DJ on the planet. If your goal is to be a professional DJ, then you start being a professional DJ NOW! That means you do NOTHING for free, YOU are worth something (And if you don’t believe you are, then go back and practice hard for a year, then you WILL BE, if you won’t do that, do something else, you are wasting your time) YOU have value, and YOU will insist others value you as you deserve to be. Gene Simmons of KISS has a great quote about this stuff “You don’t get the respect or pay you want or deserve, you get what you DEMAND! If you are unable to do that, concentrate on doing what it takes to be IN DEMAND, then your DEMANDS will be met, but if you show others you don’t respect yourself enough to demand fair compensation, don’t think anyone else will” And if anyone tries to pull the “Favor” card on you, remember this: Does the 7-11 owner ask the guy at the counter to do him a “favor” and work for free? No, he doesn’t. Remember, a party is not an essential service, like the fire department. If someone has planned an event they don’t NEED a DJ they WANT a DJ, also, the promoter has planed their event (Even if its a B-day party) because the event will be of benefit to them (The one exception would be a charity event or some other kind of benevolent gathering, where no one is in it for the money but is in it to be of service somehow, go ahead and play this event for free) anyway, this aside 99% of events looking for a DJ are planned for the benefit of the person throwing it. Asking you to play for free is like them saying “I deserve to benefit from my work but you do not deserve to benefit from yours” Its a lot like stealing, asking you to play for free is extremely disrespectful. ALWAYS get paid. I can’t stress this enough.
Great point, Donal! It’s interesting that you brought up Gene Simmons – I read his “Sex Money Kiss” a while ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. The book was recommended by Dan Kennedy BTW 🙂
Yes I Dj for free for 2 years and thanks to that I’m running the music at the best hotel in nyc